Comments on: When I was a child I acted as a child….Now that i’m a man i’ve put away childish things

By: Bae

Bae — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 00:39:12 +0000

I agree with the ladies that posted that this also applies to women. The only thing I would say to make it fall in line with us would be in the relationship category. I agree that a boy will sleep with as women as time and opportunity will allow but a GIRL will fall for his tactics. A girl will fall in what she believes is love the moment he tells her that she is beautiful. A girl will not question why they’ve been “together” for X amount of time and she has yet to meet his family or why they can only see each other after 10pm on Wednesdays–or why he only calls during work/rush hour and and after hours his phone is turned off or he does not answer her calls. A girl will be the other woman. She knows she is the other “woman” whether she can confirm it or not. A woman can spot a boy a mile away and avoids him like the plague. She is too busy living her life, making her money, establishing her career, taking care of her kids to be bothered. A woman will accept nothing less than a man.

All other Boy vs. Man topics also apply to Girl vs. Women…

By: One Man's Opinion

One Man's Opinion — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 18:39:39 +0000

You know I am feeling you on this post, right? I was going to do a simular post focused on my little brother. He’s ass has everything going for him, degreed, smart, charming, and his grown ass does not have a job. He is about to turn thirty and I need his grown ass to grow the hell up. I don’t want him to be yet another brother leaching off society.

I love my little brother to death, but for some reason the men in my family just seem to lack gumption. I don’t know where that crap comes from. Must me something in our genes that skipped me. Thank God.

By: B.Price

B.Price — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 19:37:17 +0000

@Idalisa: Thanks for the support, I myself still have work to do in the transition from boy —> man with some areas in my life so I can completely understand where you are coming from.

I think life is about experiences that are specifically geared to moving us to that next level in life, more often then not we as people tend to either ignore them, or choose to divert down the path that we are being led to because it’s [insert excuse here] and it ultimately gears to do the person not wanting to grow up, and step out of their comfort zone.

@Shelia: Thanks for co-signing to that, i’ve gotten much feedback to support your comment. I’d love to hear what some of those things are that you women have to transition from/deal with.

By: Shelia

Shelia — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 20:06:10 +0000

I think your list was quite accurate. The same list could apply for girls/women.

By: Idalisa

Idalisa — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 05:10:35 +0000

Wow! I love this blog. So true, especially in the money category. It’s not just for boy>man but for girl>woman. I know, speaking from personal experience that I have yet to work on making this transition. Sometimes I catch myself spending money on things that are not necessary, but I also think that due to the recent events in my life….I’m forcing myself to think and act like a woman. I know some people (person) who has yet to make that change! ; )